How does one succeed in life?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Do not set goals—set systems.

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How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

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Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

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Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

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Does not procrastinate.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

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In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

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If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

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Making more friends is a goal.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

How did you as a human being change while growing up?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Ask yourself:

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Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

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First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

That's it for today.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

What I need from you?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Procrastinates a lot.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.